Boldly Loving Your Space, Boldly Loving You
February is a month that carries two powerful reminders—the call to celebrate love and the call to honor Black history. At first glance, these may seem like separate ideas, but in reality, they are deeply connected. Loving yourself means honoring your roots, embracing your story, and allowing those truths to be reflected in the spaces you create.
Yet, for so many of us, there is an unspoken pressure to assimilate, even in the most intimate parts of our lives—our homes. We choose neutral palettes, Eurocentric decor, and familiar trends, not necessarily because we love them, but because they feel safe. Because they signal that we have "arrived" in a world that has long told us we don’t belong. But where exactly are we arriving? And at what cost?
If we’re not intentional, we wake up in homes that feel empty, disconnected, and unseen—mirroring the ways we’ve been conditioned to shrink ourselves. That stops now.
This month, we’re challenging you to take a deeper look at your space. Does it reflect the essence of who you are, or does it blend into an expectation that was never meant to hold you?
“This isn’t just about design. It’s about self-ownership and self-authorship.'“
This inviting living space blends culture, warmth, and intentional design. A vintage cream-colored sofa, adorned with plush teal pillows and a cozy faux fur throw, sits against a white wall featuring bold, vibrant artwork of raised fists, symbolizing strength and resilience. A richly patterned rug grounds the space, complemented by a leather Moroccan pouf and a chic gold bar cart with carefully curated decor. The deep teal curtains add contrast and elegance, while floating shelves showcase books and meaningful accents, creating a space that feels both personal and empowering.
What Does It Mean to Boldly Love Your Space?
Loving your space is an act of self-affirmation. It’s about choosing colors, textures, and pieces that reflect your identity, embracing the richness of your heritage, and creating a home that nurtures you from the inside out. When you walk into your space, it should feel like a declaration:
I know who I am. I know where I come from. And I am proud.
Boldly loving your space means stepping away from default choices and instead curating a home that speaks to your story. It’s about grounding yourself in pieces that inspire, comfort, and empower you.
Color that Holds History: Deep earth tones, rich golds, and warm rusts create a space that feels rooted, timeless, and connected.
Textures that Speak: Woven fabrics, handcrafted decor, and natural materials honor craftsmanship and culture.
Art that Tells a Story: Choosing artwork that reflects who you are, where you’ve been, and where you’re going reinforces your sense of belonging.
When you allow yourself to be seen in your own home, you strengthen the way you show up in the world.
The Power of Loving Your Space, Boldly
Your home is more than just a backdrop for your daily routine—it’s where you love, heal, dream, and build the future you want.
A home that reflects your culture, your voice, and your journey is a home that holds space for all that you are. It’s a reminder of your worth, a reflection of your resilience, and a place where you are fully embraced—by yourself, for yourself.
This isn’t just about design. It’s about self-ownership and self-authorship.
The way you create your space is a direct mirror of how you value yourself. If you’ve been playing it safe, this is your invitation to take up space unapologetically. To honor your history, celebrate your present, and hold space for your future.
So ask yourself: Does my home reflect me, or have I been designing to fit in?
Let’s make bold choices. Let’s reclaim our spaces. Let’s create homes that tell our stories with confidence, beauty, and truth.
Kadija Taylor, Owner/Principal Designer, Home and Sanctuary
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